Why oh why do people want to be in relationships? The pain I'm seeing some of my friends go through now over relationships ending is so bad that no benefit can possibly be worth the anguish.
Because as much as it hurts now it's the pain is (in most cases) not permanent. You know how blindsided and devestated I was last year. And here I am, 8 months later and happy again.
Yeah, I really admire you for that. And I'm used to seeing people bounce back eventually. It's just that now I'm also seeing times when that's not happening in any reasonable amount of time, or when the lows are so low that I'm not sure bouncing back is at all imminent or guaranteed.
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