desh ([personal profile] desh) wrote2009-04-01 12:02 pm

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Why oh why do people want to be in relationships? The pain I'm seeing some of my friends go through now over relationships ending is so bad that no benefit can possibly be worth the anguish.

[identity profile] arctic-alpine.livejournal.com 2009-04-01 06:00 pm (UTC)(link)
1. I do think it is a legitimate choice to avoid relationships
2. i think things often look different in retrospect, when the pain has dulled.
3. I personally prefer a mix of highs and lows, good times and bad, than avoiding both.