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([personal profile] dorchadas Apr. 27th, 2026 09:01 am)
In 2024, Joe Hisaishi--and I just learned today that his stage name's given name is actually , fortuitously for English-speaking audiences pronounced --came through Chicago to conduct a concert of his music put on by the Chicago Symphony Orchestra. At the time, we didn't have a lot of money and [instagram.com profile] sashagee's health was really bad, so I didn't get tickets--by the time I actually felt comfortable buying, any seat that would have been reasonable had been snapped up by scalpers and I would have had to pay close to $1000 to go. So when we missed it, I thought that was that and we had lost our only chance. Imagine my surprise when CSO emailed me that there was going to be another performance, and this time we had the money to buy tickets (still expensive but not four figures expensive). So, we did:

2026-04-25 - Joe Hisaishi Concert

The concert was lovely! I hadn't realized that Hisaishi composed symphonies of his own, though it's obvious in retrospect--one movie every couple years isn't enough to get all the creative juices out. The pre-intermission section of the program was "Symphony #2," which included a movement based on a Japanese children's song that I almost recognized. I did recognize the motif that occurred multiple times through all of Hisaishi's work, though--you can hear it here, near the end of Mononoke-Hime. There were four movements and it took about forty minutes all told, after which Hisaishi bowed, walked off stage, and the lights came up.

The second half was his movie work, featuring the Laputa: Castle in the Sky main theme with a trumpet soloist and a medley from Spirited Away that included all the hits. When Hisaishi left to a standing ovation and came back for the inevitable encore, we heard the first notes of the ending theme from My Neighbor Totoro ring out, and I looked down and saw a seven or eight year old girl being held aloft by her grandfather and waving a Totoro plush almost as big as she was. When the concert ended and the last bow had been taken, Hisaishi walked off stage and the lights came on once again. He never said a word--normal for orchestra concerts, but I still was expecting maybe a brief speech after the intermission. We got some piano playing from him, though, it wasn't all conducting, and a neat moment when they lowered the conductor's podium on an elevator down below the stage and then it came back up with a piano.

The concert was great! The only disadvantage was that since I bought seats on the very edge of the balcony, my legs were too long to fit into the available space and I ended up having to sit at an angle to be able to fit. Next time we go to the symphony I'll make sure to get seats on a lower level.

We also went out to dinner )
...and it was pretty odd.

So I usually go to Mishkan, which doesn't have a building (the word משכן is usually translated as "tabernacle"), but this Shabbat I decided I would try out Anshe Emet, a long-established Conservative synagogue in Uptown. Mishkan partners with Anshe Emet for some major events like Simḥat Torah, so I know where the building is and I've been there before, I was curious what Shabbat services for like.

Well, the first bit of oddness is that they've remodeled the building. I went around to where the entrance used to be and was just met with a brick wall and a sign saying the entrance is on Grace. Okay, huh, so I go over on Grace and the entrance is next to the parking lot, a small locked door that I have to ask the lot attendant to buzz open for me. The whole place is surrounded by a wall now, with all the ways in guarded. I'm reminded of all these posts online of Jews who grow up in a Jewish environment and finally go to a church when a friend invites them or for some interfaith event and they're like, "Wait, you can just...walk in? There aren't any security guards?" (and vice versa for Christians, who definitely don't have to go through a metal detector when going to Easter services).

The actual service was nice, though shorter than I'm used to--Mishkan is about an hour forty-five minutes on Shabbat evening and Anshe Emet was an hour, so I had the classic experience of "Wait, we're at X already?" When I arrived ten minutes after services started they were already at Leḥa Dodi. I only got through a couple prayers from the Amidah before they moved on! They did do the Haskiveinu, which Mishkan usually skips, though. And on the other hand, there were three people becoming B'nei Mitzvah the next day, so maybe things were different.

They definitely seemed different after the services were over, since each of the families had their own private dinner for them and the relatives. The president of the Rabbinical Assembly was also in attendance, so there was a separate dinner with him. I briefly peered into the room labeled Oneg, and I saw two standing tables set up and most of the floor empty with basically no one in there. Since even after the rabbi had suggested people talk to someone they hadn't come to services with, no one had talked to me--to be fair, I didn't try to talk to anyone either--I just looked into the Oneg room and then left and walked the miles home, like I used to on warm nights after Shabbat services in 2019.

I do want to go back at least one more time, since it did seem an atypical Shabbat. But I had heard that Anshe Emet was a bit insular--there are a lot of multigenerational member families there--and this didn't really do much to dispel that impression.
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([personal profile] dorchadas Apr. 23rd, 2026 11:02 am)
At long last, we have a new washer/dryer.

This was a month-long saga as we kept having to reschedule. The delivery people misread our address and didn't send enough people--our building uses European-style addressing so we're on a higher floor than it otherwise seems--or there was roof work that we were only warned about day before that blocked the entire alley, or our neighbors selling their condos and a bunch of stuff being stored on on the back and blocking the stairway. But after multiple reschedulings it's all finally handled, our old washer and dryer are hauled away, and a new one is here.

We got a stacked combo unit but it was very important to [instagram.com profile] sashagee that we have a top-loading washer because she was sick of trying to keep a side-loader clean. The drum of the new one is larger than the old one by at least a third, not even counting that you can't load a side-loader as much because it uses less water than a top-loader.

Unfortunately, though I haven't told [instagram.com profile] sashagee this, I think every other part of the new setup is a downgrade. There's no light inside the dryer drum so if I want to turn it on at night I have to turn on the washer closet light, which shines directly into the bedroom; it's louder; the display and controls are analog instead of digital; there's no way to pause and resume the dryer cycle; and it's taller than our previous machine so we had to take down the shelves on the top of that closet and now there's nowhere to put our laundry supplies up there. But, we're stuck with it now so I'll have to get used to it.
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([personal profile] dorchadas Apr. 24th, 2026 11:51 am)
Back in 2019 I played through The Eternal Castle (REMASTERED) and beat it, but left it at a single playthrough even though I could tell there was more waiting for me if I managed to beat the game without dying. Little did I know how much more there was:


This video got recommended to me by the algorithm--an actual good recommendation for once--and just a bit ago I watched it. I was expecting a secret cutscene at the end after the credits, the classic result of doing the challenge run, but there's so much more here. The levels shifting just a bit between runs, new dialogue for most NPCs, NPCs vanishing, playing tricks on you with the game "crashing", an entirely-separate game mode with a separate protagonist, separate levels, and separate enemies...there's so much more and it's entirely possible that the guy who made this YouTube essay is one of the few people in the world who has seen it all. If he even has and there isn't still more to discover.

That was well worth an hour and a half of my time.
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([personal profile] dorchadas Apr. 17th, 2026 02:01 pm)
Having a kid means that you don't have any many chances to get out for a date night anymore, but having a kid in school and working from home means that now we have time to get out for a date day. Since we already had to go to Laila's old school to pick up some of the things she left behind after her abrupt departure, we decided to go out to Kopi Cafe (picked by [instagram.com profile] sashagee) afterwards.

We chatted with the teachers a bit and told them how Laila was doing and what her problems had been--they were definitely distressed when we mentioned how Laila's lesion had continually been emitting electrical signals and disrupting her thinking, and they were relieved when we told them that Laila was now asking questions herself and answering questions with yes and no instead of just repeating the question back to you. She's using more complete sentences and also catching up on some developmental stages that her seizures were holding her back from--being a more picky eater and sometimes waking up on the wrong side of the bed, unfortunately, but I try to tell myself they're signs of her maturing all at once. We said goodbye to her preschool teachers for the last time and then went out to Kopi.

Kopi Cafe is...hmm. Well, here's a quote they post on their own website:
"Kopi's my favorite. Since 1991. I feel I've traveled my whole life to get here. The coffee, superb. The staff, spot on. The boutique, hip and chic. Breakfast, lunch and dinner. Open early. Open late. The menu's serious if you're hungry, hilarious if you're not. Mostly vegetarian. Vegan and gluten free friendly. The wines, dignified. The cocktails, knock out. The pastries...oh, you will eat pastries. The music's cool swing, and here's the thing--the people at the tables, they are talking to one another. They are smiling and laughing and being together. And sometimes they fall in love. Even if you're by yourself, you're not alone at Kopi. People are here to be not with their machines, but with each other. Imagine that. Now stop imagining and go. You don't need a passport to hang at Kopi, but if you're there, you've probably got one."
The people here are fashionable, hip, beautiful, always put-together, on time, and the ice never runs out at their parties. Emoji crossed arms

Snark out of the way, though, once I got there and looked at the menu it converted me immediately. I tend to have a problem at most American restaurants that there just isn't a lot I can eat. Usually because of mixed dairy and meat, like a hamburger but oh it's on a brioche bun, or the secret sauce has dairy, to the point where I generally don't order meat out unless there's a hechsher or there's some way I can be sure there's no dairy, like how Brightwok doesn't have dairy in the restaurant. At Kopi, though, almost all the food is vegetarian or fish. Even the deli sandwiches mostly had vegetarian deli "meat" or fish on them. I got an artichoke and feta sandwich and [instagram.com profile] sashagee got a roasted red pepper on foccacia sandwich. I didn't get pictures of those but I did get a picture of the golden milk I ordered to go with the sandwich.

2026-04-17 - Golden Milk at Kopi

The whole thing was great, and not just because as I looked over the menu I didn't have to narrow it down to the 2-3 things I could eat! Emoji Jewish with Torah We sat and chatted over lunch and stopped by Lost Larson on the way home to pick up dessert. This is something we'll have to do more often.
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([personal profile] dorchadas Apr. 13th, 2026 11:46 am)
We spent last weekend at Poppa and Nana's since we haven't been there in a long while (since Thanksgiving!)

My mother recently had hip surgery so she wasn't very mobile, and Laila is still not allowed to do a lot of her usual physical activities since she's recovering from her surgery, so this was a very low-key visit. Nana read some books to Laila, Laila rode her tricycle around their house--still pushing off the floor, not pedaling, despite our attempts to teach her how to pedal--I went on a walk with Laila and Poppa, and we watched Frog and Toad. Since Nana couldn't prep a full dinner, we ordered Thai food the first night and ate that and Poppa barbecued some fish and hamburgers the second day. We mostly stayed in the whole weekend, and Laila didn't even throw any tantrums about not being able to go jump on the trampoline. It was nice and low-key.

The one external thing we did was visit [facebook.com profile] shane.suydam and [facebook.com profile] meaghan.figg, who now live only a couple blocks from my parents' house! They have twins and we arrived just when one of the twins was waking up from her nap (the other was already awake). They were a bit unsure of how to handle Laila, especially since they'll be turning two soon and Laila is almost five, but they got along well enough. For her part, Laila was very happy at two full rooms filled with toys and spent a bunch of time in the ball pit, though she did play directly with one of the twins too--there was a stacking toy with pieces that had from one to five holes in them and pins to put them on, and the twin handed pieces to Laila while Laila put them all on the pins. Then we ended with a bit of time in the backyard (though Laila sadly wasn't allowed to climb on the playset) before going back for barbecue and then going home.

Nana's restrictions end in May, just before Laila's. It'll be a long wait for both of them but hopefully they recover okay.
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